Wishes and Worries. These are two words that I’m working on to take out of my vocabulary. I want to delete them. Instead of saying “I wish I knew how to skateboard” fucking try it out instead. If I really wanted to I could. I wish for too many things that are attainable and stay sitting on my fucking ass rather than learning. As for the tasks that are momentarillary unreachable, like “I wish I had a mansion with a pool,” stop wasting time dwelling on wishes. I am surrounded by so much that I take for granted that other people wish for. Wishing isn’t going to get me anywhere. If there is something I really want I need to learn to work for it, and in the meanwhile, take in all the beautiful things that go underappreciated. #grattitude
Now as far as worrying goes, this one is going to be a bit more challenging in the erasing department. 90% of the things you worry about never actually happen. (Something like that Idk the exact stats.) So why waste my breath and focus all my energy on something that most likely won’t happen. I mean it is always good to be prepared and do the most you can to avoid things you worry about happening. But when it’s out of your control you’re powerless SO JUST CHILL OUT. Especially when it comes to stressing about friends because small minor conflicts don’t even matter in weeks or months from when it happened.
Moral of the story is I need to learn to switch my mindset and enjoy the things happening in the moment and stop making up scenarios that may or may not happen. It’s just a waste of time.
